A while ago I linked cereta's post on rape which I found really interesting and useful for getting my head round some things and vastly infuriating on other levels. Someone else linked to this
publically available article. I know some people don't think this is an important topic, but I do. Its not preaching, its not condemnatory but it doesn't pull its punches, and yes its long. Read it, or don't, but it says a lot of things I'd like to say, only better, and without me needing to tortuously think my way around the phrasing.